In today’s world where men have the
upper hand in participating, appearing and completing complex jobs, Iyanla
Vanzant has made her own name and cancelled out all those thoughts where people
think only men can carry out complex tasks. Iyanla Vanzant who started working
with OWN (Oprah Winfrey Network) way
back in 1999 has now made some name for herself along with success and good faith to be listed as a Superwoman now.
Sitting in home today you might be wondering what I
should do to get the fame and success you have been longing for. What you
actually think is to do something big that can bloom your name around, but
forget that even small ideas and start ups can lead to success and fame and I f
you are doing it all on your own managing time for everyone else around you
then no one can stop you from being a superwoman. All it will take a
determination to get up and think something to bring a change let it be
something small itself.
“Stand for the right even if you have to
stand alone”, a worldwide quote used to describe that no matter if you have
anyone with you or even if you are alone do stand for the right things and
right justice. This quote was taken up literally by Ieshia Evans. Some days
back a photograph spread over the internet and newspaper in which a woman was
seen standing crossed arms in front of a group of armed police men. That woman was
Ieshia Evans, a superwoman to be précised for standing for the right justice
even when she was all alone.
P.V. Sindhu, as soon as you hear or read this name
somewhere, bells in your mind start ringing and take you behind some months
when this woman hailing from Hyderabad, India was the Headlines and Breaking
news in the newspaper and News Channels respectively. P.V. Sindhu is the only
Indian woman after Sania Nehawal to win an Olympics Medal in the Badminton
event and the first woman to win a Silver medal in Badminton at Olympics, which
she won on 19th August 2016 in the Rio Olympics. She fought hard and lost with
a narrow margin. All the hardwork and the determination was put on test of this
superwoman as she gave her best, answered all the critics against her and made
her family and herself proud by being the first Indian woman to enter the final
round of an Olympics tournament in the game of Badminton.
Be it a woman, man, superwoman, teen, an adolescent
or any other age group person, stress hovers around everyone and it can be
related to anything like, monetary problems, job, career, family, relationship
or even the past. This stress can lead to depression, loss of self confidence,
short temper, many mental or heart diseases and even suicide sometimes. Stress
has no fixed limit or level for age group, a teen can be stressed than a grown
up person and a grown up can be more stressed than the older people, it all
depends on how is one’s life treating them.
Well, on 9th November 2016 what shook the
whole US wasn’t some fault in the earth, but it was the result of US President
Election winner. Donald Trump has won
over Hillary Clinton and just proved 95% of US wrong. Donald Trump famous for
his WWE fame, abusive phrases, the idea of making US free of immigrants and his
beautiful wife Melania Trump is an unexpected name in the list of presidents.
To maintain a proper life, having a good health is
the most important thing. For a superwoman too, a healthy life is must to
continue without any halt and break on their journey. This health consists of both
physical and mental condition. Yes with age health does degrade but if one can
keep a proper check and follow diet and medication properly then she can be at
their peak of fitness at that age class too.
Time is precious
for everyone, be it any gender, any age group, any kind of profession or job. As
a superwoman you are supposed to make time for everyone and make sure that
everyone is looked after day to day. A housewife, a woman at work, a chef, a
sister, a baby sitter, be it any role or profession, maintain a schedule is a
must for everyone to let the tasks get completed easily and hassle free.
Being
a superwoman isn’t an easy job we all know that by now and we even know some of
the key factors involving to be one determination and hardwork being the
topmost factor to achieve the feast. One must not put away any factor important
to be a superwoman as a worthless or unimportant key thinking they don’t need
to follow it and can skip it easily. No, that isn’t the way, for every step you
skip you step closer to falling off the path and sometimes you need to start
again. So, punctuality is a must to oneself through this path.
We all have
started to follow the principles for being a superwoman, laying down the
foundation to preparing schedules to manage things with ease and comfort. We
are trying to go with the limits and self satisfaction levels. But, one needs
to keep an check to make sure the current schedule or plans that she is
following is actually working and there is visible changes otherwise they might
need to make alterations to move towards the success. Over cooking your hardwork to get the success
then after sometimes finding out that it has led to nothing yet will be a
letdown to your moral beliefs and may make you feel like to give up, but giving
up isn’t a choice. Just make some changes and see if you can feel the following
points discussed below affecting your life.
Every
woman out there is capable of achieving the feast that people doubt they can’t.
Just push away your excuses and pull yourself up and let your fears be away and
focus on the goal and purpose of being a superwoman. All you need is to let
yourself have proper rest, support and determination. Sit back and read below some points that we have
put down so that you can achieve the best in and of you.
For a
human being accepting something as it is or as it is presented to them is quite
difficult. We always ask for more or try to mould it, and sometimes if we get
something as we desire, we became inflated with over confidence and ego of
being superior. These thoughts of being superior needs to be executed, so that
we can see everyone with the same vision and not discriminate amongst them. A
must quality a superwoman should possess i.e. to treat everyone equally, fairly
and honestly.
In
our life, we witness many relations that we have to fulfill like daughter,
wife, mother, aunt, sister etc. It is a key to be a successful superwoman you
need to look after everyone in your family and the ones close to you. This is
quiet tough because as we grow the circle of people we know gets bigger and
bigger through different phases of life. The time that you could spend looking after
someone always remains the same as it was at the time of our birth, and will
continue to remain so. So, it is a must do for every women to make sure she is
available for everyone she calls as known being to her until any emergency work
comes up or she is already indulged in some other work.
Too much of
anything is not good for health be it physically or mentally. Exceeding the limit of what your body can
cope up with, be it in eating habits or thinking habits, will lead to one or
many disease and disorder. The same goes in lifestyle and working style too,
one must follow distinctive routine for every work or hobby they carry out. We
should push ourselves but upto a fixed extent, and then allow some rest and go
for more next day or next session. I f we keep doing something without rest
breaks, at the place of attending perfection we will started to become fragile.
There are some statutory statements one must know to start into the competition
of being a superwoman.
Remember
all the times when everyone said that ‘age is just a number’ well our today’s superwoman
has proved the quote right. Hansiba, a popular clothing brand around the globe
but not many know about the lady whose name this clothing brand uses and has
rose to fame. SEWA (Self Employed Women’s Association) titled Hansiba as
something of a brand ambassador for Gujarat’s traditional handicrafts industry.
The title
“Superwoman: Be the girl, not boy” is quite confusing, isn’t? You might be
thinking it states not to dress like boys or work or hangout like them, but it
isn’t anything as such. The sentence is as simple as you read it. It just
states whatever you do, do as a girl and not with the title of “Be the boy of
the family”. Achieve whatever you want as a girl, not as a disguised boy. You
are a girl, and everyone needs to accept it. In no way you are the boy of the
family and no one should tag you like that because of your lifestyle.
Whenever
anything goes wrong the first thing we do is to pray to our Gods. Pray to them
to make things better as soon as possible. Pray to them to make sure that these
uninvited happenings don’t happen again. A woman in the family is no less than
God itself residing if treated and behaved well with. She is the one who
actually starts the family and makes effort to keep the livelihood going at a
good flow.
“Motherhood” a
beautiful phase in a woman’s life during a lady bears her ownself for 9 months
then a human figure for the rest of her life in hope of its healthy and successful
life journey. A phase of life where a
woman finds happiness in that labour pain she goes through inside the room. All
those mental and physical havoc she faces just enjoy that moment of having her
baby in her arms and cherish those moments with it. Unfortunately, some don’t
get the chance to enjoy this bliss due to miscarriage or female infanticide. A
big setback in this modern world with the life rush all around and improper
eating habits lead to miscarriage. In this instance, there isn’t much the males
of the society can do. It’s upto a woman to teach a woman for a healthier life
because a superwoman rises up along with everyone and not being selfish.
Men are the one who should run the
family, go out to earn, take care of everything in the family and society and
women should just make sure to feed properly and follow their instructions
strictly. This is a base thought of our society. No this doesn’t sound wrong,
let the men do the hardwork and women sit back in their houses and relax after
their family chores. This makes a perfect sense. But you have no right to force
a woman if she wishes to get indulged in the activities that make her step out
of her house and visit the outer world. No one should stop a lady from becoming
one of those superwomen and have their own stand.
“Wear some big dress, your tummy is out. I don’t want the guy’s
family to see it”
To achieve
anything big, to reach a height of success and to have a good life there are
many Do’s and Don’ts one need to follow and follow them rigidly. To be a
superwoman in the eyes of oneself too there are some Do’s and Don’ts that one
should go with to compete in this race
of being the best and perfect. It may include giving up onto your favorite dish
or your favorite dress or even sometimes some people but all these later
add-ons to a life much successful than the one you’ll have in the present with
those unneeded habits of yours.
Swollen
Eyes, sniffling with a sore throat, moisten eyelids and a broken woman. This is
what only the night witnesses, for the outer world she is an independent and
strong woman. She can face anything and get over it quickly. As this process of
bearing those grief and rage beneath a smile continues, this woman turns
herself into a superwoman. A lady indestructible from outside but from within
holding on to herself has been brought up through the various heartbreaks of
life, love and society. Alarm bell rings and the last to sleep at home is the
first to wake up, within 20 minutes already preparing for those daily chores
that she used to face with an intentional or unintentional smile.
We all have
heard that behind every successful man there is a woman, but for the success of
a superstar something and someone more than just a woman is needed. Someone who
is more innovative, exquisite and hardworking.Someone who is different than the
normal.Someone whocan be termed as a Superwoman.In this thread,
that role of being superwoman is played by the multi-talented Victoria Caroline
Adam better known as Victoria Beckham. You guessed it right, wife of David
Beckham. But did you know when these two were dating people knew David as the
lover of the much fascinating Victoria. From being one of those street smart,
ambitious and extrovert girl in 1993 to a lady of class and royalty in 2007 she
did come a long way up.
Setting up the trend in the correct
direction and inspiring several ladies across the globe, Michelle Obama stands
out to be a perfect example of a super woman in today’s’ era. With her inherited
aptitude and competence, she is not only the First Lady of the United States
(FLOTUS), but also happens to be an independent social and economic worker. Not
only she campaigned for her husband Barack Obama in his presidential bid, but
also played a wonderful hostess of the White House.
You have an urgent meeting to attend,
you get up late unluckily; hurriedly get out of the bed; set coffee in the
kettle and put on a frying pan for omelet; meanwhile you have already decided
what you are going to wear for the meeting; quick enough to be decked up and
there you are at the breakfast table all ready,gulped in the meal and yes
exactly ten minutes and you are good great ready to go; thanks to the super woman who always do multitasking to make the grim
situations merrier.
From a little flower girl to a
super woman like model at vogue, every female is equally in love with the bag
she is flaunting and her desire for adding such new feathers to the collection
is simply never ending. Bag from a designer collection has made its way into
the heart of women of every age due to very good reasons and it seems to invoke
same emotions like a new found crush. Desire to own such wallet depreciating
limited piece of art that your girlfriends will be jealous about at times
surpasses the willingness to afford food for the next week!
It is observed that when it comes
to finance, women tend to pick up the extremes. Either they save it all or they
simply spend it all. With the availability of various financial instruments and
investment plans, choosing the manner in which you can maximize your saving
should be an informed decision. You could be a student, working single or
married woman and housewife and due to various social and economic status, the
places in which you should capitalize your money will be different. After going
through this piece of information who will be able to make a super woman like
smart decision.
Wedding day is considered to be
the most important day especially in a woman’s life. Not only because it is
going to open a whole new chapter in her life, but also this is the day that
all girls dream about since she was a little one. So it is very common to be
surrounded by a group of girlfriends who will have nothing in common other
than their never ending love for marriage and you are unable to detect a single
soul who will accept this fact without a shock that you do not want to get
married, ever! What you need is little super woman like reinforcement that will
make it clearer to you that it is ok to not want to get married so that next
time you don’t feel guilty to voice your choice of lifestyle.
The super busy super woman has
discovered ways of tackling all the obstacles in her life. But after going
through a day of excelling at her field and taking care of her family, when she
prepares to drift into the peaceful world of sleep and dreams, she finds
herself helpless against the unavailability of the same. A conqueror by day
loses to insomnia at night. However, there are many ways to build your arsenal
against this invisible yet most desired enemy so that your body and its wellbeing
is not compromised due to lack of rest.
After painful end to a
relationship, the only satisfaction we allow ourselves to derive is the fact
that may be we have learnt something from this experience and we can use this
wisdom to make a better and hopefully a different choice in future. A year
later, surprisingly, we are trying to find such satisfaction again but unable
to do so as we find ourselves upset over the same reasons. Isn’t it a bit odd
that we diligently keep following a pattern that leads us to the misery of
dating the wrong guy? A super woman like vigilance should take up the task of
breaking out of this habit.
Women generally go
through a major transformation of wardrobe while going through pregnancy. As a
result we stop buying clothes as soon as we start trying to conceive in the
wait that after the procedure begins, we can simply start shopping at the
maternity clothing stores. We tend to ignore certain outfits and apparels which
are apt for both your pregnant as well as non-pregnant times and you should
never shy away from buying them or never get rid of them when you conceive. Simple
super woman like neatness is required to identify them.
The infinite will power and
fortitude of a group of super woman who were diagnosed with cancer, has fought
this disease bravely and forced God to alter his course by offering life in
place of death. However, due to the malevolent nature of this ailment, it tends
to leave certain scar or loss of our body parts in its wake. So even when the
most difficult feat is achieved by a woman, these gaps act as constant
reminders of the painful time. One such example is survival of breast cancer
when the lady had to go through mastectomy.
When you wake up in the morning
and before leaving bed, revise your to-do list for the day, figuring out which
work is finished and which are pending, don’t you at times feel that you are
adding more stuff than you are crossing off making the list never ending? It is
a vicious circle which you will not be able to escape till the time you are
responsible for taking care of yourself and the people dependant on you. That
is why, we hereby suggest an alternate start to your super woman like day in
place of the frightening list, “trail running”.
Some say “birds of a feather
flock together”, others say “opposites attract”. You might find it a task to
figure out which one of these will show you the way to settle down with the
right partner. The heart wants what the heart wants but before giving in to
every desire of your heart, certain basic parameters should be tested with
regard to the man in question before you make him the subject of your deep
affection. He may have various qualities but absence of the following traits
can end up making the compatibility difficult. Here are some points for the
super woman to filter her search for a superman.
Losing weight while having fun that
does not involve exercising. Believe? You might have to if you keep reading. These
enjoyable ways are especially designed for the days of summer when you may not
feel like sticking to your workout regime due to the impossible heat and
additional fatigue. Keep a note of these activities so that you can use the
next summer to shift to a lower dress size. The first arrow in the quiver
represents taking up a cycling tour. Imagine the bright day around you, breeze
stroking your face and the vivid scenery that you pass by as you happily cycle
those never ending roads like a super woman and leaving behind the calories.
Ever woke up and wondered where’d
all the time go?On a very rare day when we get a chance to catch a break from
the hectic work life or unfortunate family dramas, our mind might wonder if we
have done all the stuff that should have been done in the age bracket that we
left behind. As soon as we cross the significant mark of 30, these thoughts
become more prevalent. Therefore, every super woman is suggested to keep
certain activities in mind that she better attends to before she turns thirty
so that they don’t add to the list of things that she should have done.
After having a long week of no
breathing space at work or the endless parade of arguments with boyfriend or
husband, nothing unwinds a girl more than having a night out with her girlfriends.
It is such a gathering of super woman where nothing you say is found silly and
every effort you put in dressing up is noticed and equally appreciated. The
heart to heart chat over every topic on earth that we can have with our
girlfriends is incomparable with any. The only thought process involved is what
to wear for this occasion. We are here to help you out in that regard.
Something to remember me by. It
is one of the most romantic sentence uttered which is followed by a mark or
item of remembrance. However, it is the most unwelcome gesture when your
pregnancy says it to you and offers stretch marks as a token to remember it by!
One of the most beautiful and important period of a woman’s life is blemished
by the never leaving scars on her body which never adds to her beauty. Though
they seem inevitable, but certain super woman like pre-emptive measures can
prevent them from ever coming into existence.
Every independent super woman
dreams of excelling in her profession. What about those ladies whose profession
appears like a dream?Modelling is one such career option which not only
requires abundant blessing of nature for creating you suitable enough for the
field but also astuteness and spirit to choose the correct direction and make a
mark. Skinny, tall and beautiful women are not as scarce as they used to be. Almost
every second woman suffer from an eating disorder and craving for quick fame
which is considered most achievable in this field. However, in-depth study and
right career choices are required to actually make your place in the industry
as a model.
When it comes to symbolism of
identity, which aspect do you think will top the list? As per me, it’s your
name. A woman taking up her husband’s name after marriage is the one of the
oldest and most common tradition found across several cultures. This change in
identity was considered so obvious that there hardly was any discussion
regarding it. Women were also more than happy to let go of their own family
name and lovingly merge with their new family. But in today’s era of super
woman like independent thinking, some ladies have started taking a step back
and analyse the pros and cons of giving up their own name for another.
A girl who doesn’t like
weddings. Sounds like a species rarer than the abominable snowman, but to your
surprise, she exists! Wedding is considered to be the most important day in a
woman’s life since time immemorial and yet somehow this perfect day looks
almost similar in every woman’s imagination. Flowers, fancy gown, multi
storeyed cake, a popular band, vintage handkerchiefs, so on and so forth. But
there are some differently seasoned ladies who are not charmed by this fancy
picture and their super woman like out of box thinking motivates them to pursue
newer versions of this important day which is fun but not so taxing on the
pocket. Here are some tips to attain the goal.
