Too much of anything is bad. There
is no challenge in finding a flaw in this statement. The twist remains however,
to decide that how much is too much. A tall person is generally considered very
easy to spot in a crowd. As a result a tall man stands out amongst lot others
even if he doesn’t make any attempt to look special. What stands out even more
than a tall guy? A tall girl! It is a pre conceived perception that a girl
standing next to a guy will always be shorter than him. So surprise and awe
easily come into being when that image is turned the other way round and
certain tall super woman is eyed differently.
It is mainly around teenage that
the uncontrollable growth in height occurs in our life. Some take it as a
welcome change. Unfortunately, some don’t. A girl can embrace this elegant
change in her body as a blessing and use it to groom a personality of super
woman that suits her and helps her make an impression on the people around her.
However, it is seen that, when being pointed out that they are growing beyond
some imaginative acceptable scale, some girls tend to get overly conscious
about this aspect and that builds up into insecurity.
You can choose to be tall and
proud or tall and slouching. One of the best aspects where a tall girl can use
her height to advantage is sport. This rare gift can be used smartly like a
super woman in games like basketball. If you start to feel insecure about your
body, then joining such avenues which are filled with other girls who share
your figure can be a morale booster. If you are not born with the confidence
that is required to carry yourself, being around other strong and tall woman
can rejuvenate that within you.
Society is always found to be
non-accepting of change or deviation of any sort. As a result you might find a
bunch of people being unnecessarily inquisitive about your not so shy growth
and at times, may be very comfortable in making jokes about how the world looks
from your height. There is absolutely no point in registering such comments in
your brain as they are mere projection of the insecurities of the other person.
Rather you should have pity on them like a super woman and laugh along to help
them feel in charge, even if it is for vanity sake.
Last but not the least, it is
pertinent to mention that though height should not be considered as a prominent
criteria for choosing the man of your dreams, there are plenty single “tall”
guys available who are more desperate to click with a tall super woman like
lady than you can imagine.
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