Super Woman: What he must have

Some say “birds of a feather flock together”, others say “opposites attract”. You might find it a task to figure out which one of these will show you the way to settle down with the right partner. The heart wants what the heart wants but before giving in to every desire of your heart, certain basic parameters should be tested with regard to the man in question before you make him the subject of your deep affection. He may have various qualities but absence of the following traits can end up making the compatibility difficult. Here are some points for the super woman to filter her search for a superman.

Angry young man may appear very seductive but after sometime that attraction fades and all you are left with is a bitter man. Everyone loses control of their temper at some point but frequent occurrence of the same is just a prelude to a fierce or belligerent encounter. When we choose a partner we expect our life to attain more balance and peace with him. Falling for a person who just adds forceful anxiety and unnecessary drama is not at all a super woman like choice.

Another act of a man to notice is his behaviour towards those people from whom he has nothing to gain and who are incapable of fighting him back even if he treats them wrongfully. This comportment is a real depiction of his true nature. The index of wealth, humour or physical appearance may vary from one man to another and these factors may hold a temporary charm. But if you are fortunate enough to find a man who is kind and full of empathy, then you will keep rediscovering the passion in the relationship with him. A super woman deserves nothing less than that.

Letters have become a thing of past and emails have taken their place in the current times. A smart super woman like approach includes taking cue from the mails that he writes to you. If he is continues to use third person in the manner of expression then you must sense that he is still in the formal phase of the relationship and not yet dived into commitment. If he uses capital letters at place where they are hardly suitable it may show that he might as well shout out those words to you. Over use of exclamation and smiles indicates certain hidden emotions around the thought which you may need to counter in person to get a better picture.

And finally, try not to get serious with a guy who is rightfully disapproved by your girlfriends but only if they are able to substantiate their condemnation with iron clad logic because a relationship doesn’t remain even half as fun if you can’t talk about it with your other super woman like besties.