Superwoman: Do’s and Don’ts for oneself

To achieve anything big, to reach a height of success and to have a good life there are many Do’s and Don’ts one need to follow and follow them rigidly. To be a superwoman in the eyes of oneself too there are some Do’s and Don’ts that one should  go with to compete in this race of being the best and perfect. It may include giving up onto your favorite dish or your favorite dress or even sometimes some people but all these later add-ons to a life much successful than the one you’ll have in the present with those unneeded habits of yours.

Live freely, Listen to your Heart, and don’t think what the society tells you about yourself, these are few of those things upon which everyone in the modern times tries to lead their lives upon and are kind of essentials for the one thriving to be a superwoman. There isn’t anything wrong in following these principles to lead a life of happiness and self satisfaction but mostly people just get the wrong side of these principles. While following such thoughts many us often go against the whole world just to prove ourselves right. This is what is actually wrong. The perspective to understand these thoughts is not just to make oneself free but also to make sure it doesn’t hurt someone else’s sentiments, emotions or life.

With so many orthodox laws passed for the women of the society through the ages of family tree like not working at places they wish to or staying out till late night are some of the reasons why these principles have now build a stronghold in the modern generations people. And personally speaking it is completely alright to go and live your own life and have your life to work and race up to be one of those superwomen but there are Don’ts to everything and there are many prohibitions that we need to follow to not just have a good present but also a bright and healthy future.

Smoking, no there isn’t anything wrong in smoking. “It’s my life and I can do so” but saying this is wrong. A woman is supposed to be the one who starts family and smoking is never a sign of a healthy lifestyle. So next time remember it’s not just your life but nearly a whole generation burden that you are carrying. Self Abuse, the modern way to relive from stress by wounding oneself. “You don’t know what I have to face and how it feels” another wrong excuse. Yes we don’t know what you had to face but those cuts on the wrist also don’t speak up it just leads some wastage of blood and sometimes fatal injury. So it’s better to speak up about your problems than to be a stress on everyone else’s head those care for you. It isn’t about how perfectly you mould your life, it is about how you mould yourself for everyone else and be benefit for yourself and others, this is one of the biggest requirements to be enlisted as a superwoman.

To be a superwoman, one must be mature enough to call the right calls irrespective of their age and be an unselfish person. One must know their limits of freedom and space that they have. One can’t just go rogue in the name of living freely.