Superwoman: Keys to Sustain Relations

In our life, we witness many relations that we have to fulfill like daughter, wife, mother, aunt, sister etc. It is a key to be a successful superwoman you need to look after everyone in your family and the ones close to you. This is quiet tough because as we grow the circle of people we know gets bigger and bigger through different phases of life. The time that you could spend looking after someone always remains the same as it was at the time of our birth, and will continue to remain so. So, it is a must do for every women to make sure she is available for everyone she calls as known being to her until any emergency work comes up or she is already indulged in some other work.

As a daughter, one is supposed to learn the morals, behave and study well and act in sanity so it doesn’t pride the family pride. By the time the daughter grows up to the age of 12 or 12, she starts to find a new relation coming up that is “Friends”, unlike mom and dad, one can share about her feelings and thought that she can’t in front of her family due to maybe lack of such interaction or nervousness about their views. As the girl grows, at different institutions, she makes different patches of friends like school mates, colleagues etc. Through all this she falls for someone whom her heart accepts as a person just like her, someone who will know her from the beginning and will know things to keep her safe and carefully, that’s when she plays the role of a girlfriend. A daughter, a friend now a girlfriend, her life is moving now and the relations just keep on coming until she faces a shower of relations to be as after she gets married to the guy. Now, she has to take care of two families along with all the previous existing relations.

A girl with so many roles and making sure not any one of them breaks off sounds complicated and it is indeed. So, how will one cope up with these? To answer in brief one should not say “no” until she finds it wrong or against any principles of being a superwoman. If any of these people come up to you to ask for help in any situation you got to put away your personal grief and ego, and lend a hand to help them no matter how they look at you or behave towards.

Help them, but only when you are available to help at ease. Don’t stress yourselves and end up being unhealthy, on the other hand when such situation arises just make them understand why you won’t be available to help them at that particular situation.

By doing so, you never lose someone or you don’t let them walk out of your life. It’s them who call the shots if they want to leave. For a superwoman, it is a must to grow herself along with others around.