Superwoman: Against Patriarchy

Men are the one who should run the family, go out to earn, take care of everything in the family and society and women should just make sure to feed properly and follow their instructions strictly. This is a base thought of our society. No this doesn’t sound wrong, let the men do the hardwork and women sit back in their houses and relax after their family chores. This makes a perfect sense. But you have no right to force a woman if she wishes to get indulged in the activities that make her step out of her house and visit the outer world. No one should stop a lady from becoming one of those superwomen and have their own stand.

Treat your women like a Queen, not a maid. She didn’t get married to you just for cooking foods. She has every right to take part in the family discussions which may affect her lifestyle too. She should be given fair chance to have her say in arguments, debates and discussions. Just because she is a female you can’t consider her to be a weak individual and question her capability to make a right and acceptable decision. She should be given every fair chance if she wants to be transformed as a superwoman and make her own name.

Men make adjustment in laws of the family as per their wish and needs, forgetting that there are women too living in the same family and have to abide by the same rule. Every man should ask their spouse or the woman they look up to for care and food about the amendments they make in the system or even if they bring in any new rule for any circumstances. A woman is someone upon whom her bay will look upto to learn things about the family and if she herself doesn’t have any idea about the background and system of the family what do you except her to teach to her kid at the blooming age of theirs. A woman who has knowledge about everything is someone who can dwell at any situation and it helps her to build her own morals as a superwoman.  Let’s not them make feel inferior and treat them like puppet and keep pointing out that it’s a man world. Because we all know there is no world if woman don’t exist.

Women are sent down here for a purpose and no that purpose isn’t just to reproduce and cook food. They have their own ambition, goal and dreams. They too need sufficient chances to prove their worth and be on par as men. This doesn’t mean that a man will oppress himself and come down to the level of Woman. No, the right way to cope up with wrong distribution of power and authority is to help women lift themselves up to the level where both the genders have equal power and authority.

For the transformation of one from Woman to a Superwoman, not just herself belief is needed but family support too plays a major role in it.