Super Woman: She Feels Good, So She Looks Good

When we see a baby running around with his face smudged with chocolate or paint, we cannot stop feeling a little jealous about how care free this little guy is about how he looks or what people around him thinks. This happy-go-lucky attitude is the first thing a baby girl gives up when she starts taking her soft steps towards consciousness and slowly enters the paradigm shifting world of teenage. This is the time when she is full of observance towards the people around her and her thought process during this period is utmost contributory in the way to her blossoming into a super woman.

Appearance is one of the biggest factors that occupies a huge part of a teenage girl’s grey matter. This perspective has many factors attached to it. One of the most prominent of such factors is the social one. A girl may tend to develop the practice of just following the style or taste of the seemingly popular kids. It may appear as the convenient and smart thing to do but it results in losing one’s identity and perseverance. In place of bringing out the super woman in her, the girl may just end up copying another person.

A variety of taste can be observed in young girls clothing but the pressure to choose an appearance for oneself is felt abundantly by almost every teenage girl which a super woman should never give in to. It may appear to her that the choice she makes regarding her appearance is nothing short of a “life changing” decision but it is just a temporary glitch.

The way a person looks is a criterion to judge her style statement but is also considered by a shallow lot to perceive her as a person. The gloomy angle to this situation is that a huge portion of the crowd is made of such shallow minds. So a girl can either give in to such judgmental looks and lose her self-confidence or can recognize the super woman inside her and dress up in a manner that truly reflects her thoughts. Rather than being a stereotype, she can become an inspiring young lady bringing a breath of fresh air in a generation full or glitter and cologne.

The most confusing yet evolving factor that can bother a young girl is biological. Her body changes so rapidly and in so many different ways that she may not be able to relate to herself one year apart. Her shyness or simplicity can hold her back from having a good perception of such matters which may lead to more self-consciousness about her appearance.  She should not let these developments weigh her thoughts and the most effective way of doing that is to talk to an elder lady in house or among relatives. In an ideal family, the mother or the big sister will be seen guiding this young lady regarding such issues just before she is expected to face them, making her even better prepared. Youth should bring out the super woman in a girl who dresses like she feels and feels nothing but good about it.