Super Woman: Mom Can Come To Help When She Helps Herself

One of the biggest regrets that working mothers has is that they are unable to provide as much care to their family as they deserve. What they fail to acknowledge that they are neglecting their self-well being more than that of kids or husband. It is only when you maintain yourself enough to bring out your top notch game, will you be able to attend to your family in the finest manner. A super woman like mother will always stay one step ahead of the stressful pangs of her job so that her family life is never tarnished. Here are few easy to do tips to assist you with that.

The first tip starts from the end of the day. Build the habit of sleeping early amongst your kids so that you can hang up your daily armour within a reasonable time at the end of the day and get a good 7 hours sleep. Lack of sleep is one such occurrence which brings out catastrophic effects in the long run that ruins both the health of the lady as well as family tranquility. Even though the weekend feels like a time to relax, you should also use to plan the week ahead especially shopping for food. Only a well fed mother can be vigilant enough like a super woman to ensure kids well being.

A stay home mother who has constant domestic help may have the luxury of letting her kids not learn the chores around the house. But as a mother who cannot ensure round the clock availability, you have to take a super woman like stand and groom your kids timely as to how to survive small crisis without you. Involve them in activities around the house so that you can get an appreciable amount of bonding time with them along with making them better prepared to handle themselves.

Do not get stagnant when it comes to your look. Just because you are blessed with motherhood, that doesn’t mean that you always have to look stereotype for the part. Change your hairstyle from time to time or try to dress up beautifully in the most affordable manner as possible so that your husband or kids get to appreciate that you have an independent super woman life which doesn’t revolve around just being a mother. Pursue your hobby and limit the universal sacrificing attitude that blocks you from putting your needs above others.

It is important that you identify your weaknesses along with your strength. Only a super woman like self-confidence can make you comfortable enough to ask for help when you actually need it. Over defensive attitude that feeds on our ego many a times leads us to a scenario where we hesitate to express the need for help even when we feel like drowning. Such reluctance should be curbed in the very bud.